Dating differences between men and women
Unfortunately, when you finally muster up the courage to hop off the straight train and get off at station LGBTQ - there's no welcome committee presenting you with a “how to” guide -- and navigating the girl-on-girl scene is .
OK, I get it; it’s not like you’ve never been at a DATE before.
However, we know that you will not change your partner’s attitudes and behaviors unless they themselves are motivated to do so.
You are even less likely to change their basic gender characteristics.
The time has come my fellow precious, lady-loving, Sapphic Sisters to get the f*ck out of the closet.
It’s a dangerous game, chock full of paranoia and power play.Differences that cut deeper than the mere fact that you’re effortlessly, die-hard, attracted to GIRLS (attraction is the part): The typical guy (of course there are exceptions, there are ALWAYS exceptions) in his early-to-mid twenties doesn’t kill himself with deep, agonizing thoughts on picking the perfect place for his first date with a new crush. That being said, we don’t choose that bar/restaurant lightly.We will usually attempt to pick a place that the very essence of our personalities.You’ve probably been suffering through sexless dates with men since you were that coveted teenage girl whom all the boys wanted in their yard.It’s important to keep in mind, however, that there are quite a few KEY differences when you’re a girl-dating-a-girl that may (or may not) come as a surprise to your new sexually unshackled self. Lesbians inherently understand the utmost importance of first impressions, and we are mega aware the location we choose for the first date will be fully analyzed/broken down by the girl we are taking out.
When you’re swimming in the boy-girl pool, it almost feels to get noticed because you're caught up in a terrifying tidal wave made up of masses of over-eager “girls-seeking-boys.” The straight scene is one giant, over-saturated, heterosexual hot mess.